Is Tell A Friend Strategy Safe To Use?

Is Tell A Friend Strategy Safe To Use?

Tell A Friend (TAF) scripts are quite popular as a viral marketing strategy.
Basically, this strategy lets your site visitor (the sender) send a message to their friends containing an endorsement for your pages, products or services. It will help you increase your market reach.

Since the Tell A Friend strategy is a form of ‘word of mouth’ marketing, it works very well. After all, in theory, the receiver of such an endorsement can see it was sent by a well known person.

To make this strategy a success, you just got to have something great to endorse, otherwise people aren’t willing to use it. That’s why it works best if the sender of the message can benefit from sending it.

Tell A Friend
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There are many TAF systems available on the Net. There’s even a Wordpress widget available that does the job: Tell A Friend Through A Widget.

One of the best is a cgi script called TAF Pro.  I’ve used that in the past with great success, because senders of messages can be rewarded.
Rapid Action Profits, the one-stop e-commerce script also includes a TAF option.

Many people apply this strategy in their marketing and some with great success, but I stopped using it, because the tell a friend strategy is on the edge.

Because, as I mentioned above, IN THEORY the receiver of a Tell A Friend endorsement should see the message comes from a close friend.

But quite often that is not the case. The receiver either doesn’t recognize the sender’s email address or the script used doesn’t clearly show such an address.
Of course, senders can also abuse such scripts to send endorsement to everybody. And then there are spam bot and hackers who definitely will abuse any TAF script that isn’t secure.

That’s why, occasionally, tell a friend messages are reported as spam. After all, the recipient receives a message without prior consent. And since that message was sent by YOUR server, you can get into big trouble!

Today, the Dutch Data Protection Authority (Dutch DPA) issued a press release about the conditions to use a Tell A Friend system.
It’s in Dutch, but you can get a reasonable translation in English here.

No rewards are allowed and for both receiver as sender it must be utterly clear what was sent and by whom.

One simple way around these requirements is to have the sender send the endorsement from its own PC. You just create a simple form catching the recipients email address and add that to a simple mailto link. This causes the email client from the sender to pop up and send the endorsement from there.

Another way to avoid any problems is to use a third party service. At least, the endorsement will not come from your server. Which doesn’t mean you don’t have to follow the rules!

If you use a Tell A Friend script of some sort on your own server, just remember to be very careful, keep an eye on the rules and follow them closely to avoid any problems.

So, how about you?
Do you use a Tell A Friend system?
If so, post your experiences below.

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12 Responses To: “Is Tell A Friend Strategy Safe To Use?“

Thomas Gajdjis says:
December 4th, 2008 at 12:29 pm

I had a tell-a-friend script on my computer parts web site. Someone found it and was adding their affiliate spam links and emailing tons of people. Now I use the social bookmarking icons and that seems to work better.

TomG.


Moumita says:
December 5th, 2008 at 4:22 am

Nice post and the photo attached above is very beautiful. In my opinion TAF is the most useful strategy of marketing.


lanre - nigeria web designer says:
December 5th, 2008 at 7:50 am

Its so sad to see how much the tell a friend phenomenon has been abused. I remember the early days of hotmail. A little script that said this mail was sent using hotmail and blah … It worked so well. I am yet to discover any new effective viral marketing strategy. Does any one know?


Josh Neumann says:
December 5th, 2008 at 2:28 pm

Very interesting info, I have heard a lot of top marketers who get a lot of traffic, and very few of them have ever even mentioned this software, so it’s debatable how effective it is anyway. Just my two cents, but in my opinion I don’t think it’s worth using.


online Christian business opportunity says:
December 7th, 2008 at 7:57 am

Thanks for the great post,
I have wondered before about tell a friend scripts but never really knew where to get info. I really like your site it looks professional and is very inviting. I will be back to see what other gems you have.
Andy


SEO Positions says:
December 7th, 2008 at 10:59 pm

I have used the tell a fried script with success only while using a captcha script to guard it! It’s crazy how sophisticated those annoying email spam bots can be!

Justin


Suz says:
December 8th, 2008 at 11:44 am

I hadn’t thought about the legal implications of using a Tell-a-friend, thanks! I was just considering implementing one on my new Joomla site, but I think I’ll wait until I can figure out the legal stuff – last thing I want right now is to get hit with a lawsuit or fine!
http://hotels.uptake.com


IrateSloth says:
December 9th, 2008 at 4:35 am

Thank you for this post, and especially the first comment. I had a TAF script on one of my sites that I had been completely ignoring (Dumb on my part) well after checking it out, people have been abusing it with affiliate spam so I removed it. Thank you for the possible trouble you saved me from!


AstucesWeb says:
December 9th, 2008 at 8:56 pm

TAF or Tell a Friend is quite similar or almost the same as “Word of Mouth” publicity, which is the best form of publicity. If you’ve been successfully using a product or service for quite some time, and you spread a good word about it amongst your friends, it spreads like jungle fire, and the product becomes popular in no time,without the need of any additional advertising inputs.
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December 11th, 2008 at 11:48 pm

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Steve says:
December 13th, 2008 at 8:26 pm

well…

There are some pre-built Tell-A-Friend features you can download and use on your website where they can connect directly to your visitor mailbox and send from there…

Of course, the visitor will have to login using their own account such as YahooMail, GMail, etc.
http://www.freelancezone.com.sg


Internet Marketing Strategies says:
January 8th, 2009 at 1:14 am

This is a great marketing tip, I actually saw one of these on one of my merchant’s sites and am now using it on my a couple of my blogs. I think this is especially good for niche sites, people always share a good find with friends and family.
JR


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